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Jessica Elsener יסכה's avatar

This is a very thoughtful article. While I lovingly refer to the "Last Dance" documentary series, as one of the most effective piecesof propaganda ever made, there is also no denying what made Jordan special.

I think there's room for debate, about whether he could have had the same performance, and maybe treated his fellow players with more kindness. I'm not sure. I see both sides of that.

I just wanted to add that,while you can't be whatever you want, you also have to realize that doing what you're good at, may not always bring happiness. Keeping in mind that happiness and success are not mutually exclusive. There's the passion you might have for the thing you love, and your skill could be unmatched in whatever imaginary hypothetical field. That won't always be the thing that will feed your family. Jordan was able to start relatively young, even considering his early pro injuries.

There's many out there who do have a special skill,in the way Jordan did,but the choice they had to make was not what they wanted, but what the best thing that they can do to survive and feed their children.

To which my point is, there's happiness also, in not being who you want to be, but being who you needed to be. I still play in a band, I love playing my Artificial Blonde, Flight Delay, and Morning Glory(does EHX make those? jk) Those inspire me and bring me joy, as does recording music. But that, or my former profession as a chef, was never going to help pay my mortgage, or take care of my kids. I became who I needed to be, and that brings me the happiness that pursuit of who I wanted to be,never would.

Great article, I look forward to reading your past posts. Shalom.

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Neil Levine's avatar

A challenge I have faced is where you have a passion, that was all consuming and was there over many decades, was a core part of your personality, your life, and your profession and then… it goes. Finding your passion is amazing but losing that passion and trying to find a new one is really hard later in life.

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